Support In Mala Fide

I like books but dammit I am quite a cheapskate. Add on top of that I like to keep things minimal in my abode and while I’d like to keep a certain type of book on a shelf for decoration, I don’t want to end up looking like some of my bibliophile friends whose apartments are littered with books they may one day get around to reading.

In June 2011 I bought Athol’s Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011. It’s a book I’ll be passing on to my married friends. Great content. It plunged me into the archives of his blog and learned about all the other characters writing in the manosphere. I had a very eye opening experience gazing into the very real world of women, sex, pickup, psychology, misogyny, misandry, racism, classism, and how easy it would have been for me to bang all the girls I was pining for in my early twenties.

Here we are in the modern age and great people can write something and get it out to me on a kindle (or other e-reader) without me having to drop $30 on something I may not want to have physically laying around my place after I’m done with it. I’m finding great content for under $10 and I don’t have to invest in the paper.

Frost has done it with his lifestyle guide and so does The Chef In Jeans has his archetypal dinner date.

Ferd at In Mala Fide has two offerings for you that are at the easy price points of $0.99 and $1.49 that should be added to your digital collection post haste. You’ll be supporting the major dark hub of internet evil that we all know and love and I’m plenty fine with that.

The good news is if you donate at least $10 of support to I.M.F. you’ll get Frost’s Freedom Twenty-Five Lifestyle Guide as well.

Click here for all of the details …It’s almost like a local NPR pledge drive but more or less with sex involved.

I’ve bought all items mentioned above without any reason to speak about them other than I want my brethren to better themselves as I have.

And I fully expect you to as well.


Teach Boys Game

A common meme within the slutwalkers is putting the entire weight of responsibility upon the man for rape. Often they are holding a sign that essentially says “Don’t tell me how to dress, teach men to not rape.” Obviously shared responsibility has been entirely lost.

This is nothing new though. When men in the media are portrayed as either bumbling idiots that can’t change a diaper or stand up to their woman, or as ravenous, violent apes unable to control their urge have sex and rape the unwilling.

Add to this a program in California (link, press release) led by US Davis have started a program in schools called “Coaching Boys into Men” which is supposed to help curb the “physical, sexual, and emotional aggression prevalent in adolescent romantic relationships” because “one in three adolescent girls experiences physical, emotional or verbal abuse by a dating partner” in the United States. It’s unclear where this one in three number comes from or what defines “verbal abuse” as it is just as likely that teasing a girl could be considered “abuse” because she just doesn’t like it.

The program has such tender intentions that I hate to come down so hard on it but it’s taking the typical blue-pill solution to a problem that may just contribute to more submissive men and perpetuates the trope that all relationship problems and the root of all violence in any relationship is with the man.

I will be coaching our boys on Game/Charisma* adjusted for their adolescent relationships. It’s what should be done in the first place. The idea that a “real man” is someone who plays puppy dog to a woman was the reality I grew up in that I won’t be passing on.

Our sons will not be violent to anyone that does not deserve it. They will not force themselves violently, sexually upon a girl after she has said “no” because he has other options – there will be no desperation on his part. It will be her loss and she will know it. Our sons will be confident enough to leave a demanding, bitchy partner because he knows that there is someone else willing to be a feminine, supportive partner elsewhere.

And just as he should be able to defend and protect himself physically with any man, he will also not hesitate to defend and protect himself physically if a woman attacks him – be it with her hands, teeth, knives, or firearm.

Coaching Boys Into Men of distinction, knowledge, game, and charisma.